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Necks Please!

Monday, 29th September 2014

It started off like any other night, my boyfriend and I were in bed, about to turn in, when as he went to kiss me his stubbly beard brushed against my neck. The physical response I had from this was mind blowing, my whole body tingled with the deliciousness of it. I pulled his head towards me and writhed against him, trying desperately to maximise the intense feelings that were flooding me. From one side of my neck to the other, me on top of him and him on top of me, I was a mad man as I sought for more and more pleasure, his kissing lips and stubble on my skin were driving me wild.

What can't have been more than a few minutes felt like a delectable lifetime and I didn't want it to end. I can only describe the climax of it, as I wound my body around and around, as a neckgasm. Even now, just typing that, I had a little tremor of pleasure go down my spine. We were both incredibly aroused, but neither of us had touched below the belt.

As I lay there, panting with the exertion, with tingles of joy still flowing over my skin, I couldn't help but think how easy it is to focus on sex as just a cock based activity. Yeah sticking a penis in a hole and moving feels good, but there's so much more that our bodies can do and so may other ways that we can get pleasure. Yeah, fair enough I can't see it being easy to find a guy on grindr who's going to be happy just nuzzling your neck, but there are ways of getting your rocks off that massively minimise the risk of transmitting STIs and that still feel amazing. Don't be afraid to use your body in new ways and find out what feels good for you. I for one can't wait to see where else tingles when caressed with stubbly kisses.

 

Written by Jack Davis

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